Well here are few simple changes in our life style if we start to do, will slowly have a vast effect on society. I will keep them adding over the time (little short of time at the moment)
First one – Whenever you see someone let him/her be totally stranger – GIVE A SMILE 
A simple smile has very profound effects. A simple smile can remove lot of anger, hatred, crimes and prejudice from the society
I will give you an example: I have two nieces one 4 yr old and another 2 yr old, whenever the younger one does some mistake or breaks any crockery or does anything naughty, and sees my sister coming to her with the intention of punishing her she immediately catches her ears, gives a very big smile and says sorry. You won’t believe she is the naughtier among the two but has hardly been punished even 10% of elder one who doesn’t know this simple art to bring down others anger.
After some observation I found its her smile which is the real science in her art, I thought to experiment this on my colleagues and other people I see everyday.
The next day on my way out to car parking I saw this young beautiful lady with her puppy, usually I shy away in these type of situations, but I purposefully looked at her and when she looked at me I gave a big smile, and the reaction? She too gave me a very nice and sweet smile – the effect – I was smiling the way to my office, the traffic appeared to be different to me, usually you curse the Auto-wala but I was just looking at them and smiling, some of them gave me a strange look but more than 60% smiled back – and I am sure this made their day too.
Now in office, I decided to count how many people will reply my smile with smile. I saw few familiar faces whom I see everyday they are from different departments so we hardly know each other, we just pass by or usually glance each other while on lift. Today I gave smile to everyone I saw. Result – 80% people smiled me back and almost all of the ladies smiled back. Believe me before this smile they were familiar faces but were totally stranger. Just a simple smile removed that strangeness. Few people even waved hands while moving out of lift, as if we knew each other for long!
My further thoughts and research on this indicated that lot of crimes against the women can be reduced if they when meeting or seeing other passerby give a simple smile. Smile introduces a bond of goodness, takes away the ill-feeling and bad intentions.
Why not to try yourself! Just give a smile to whomever you meet today
Other effects of smiles:
1) Improves the health
2) Takes out stress immediately
3) Increases bonding between (may be totally unknown) people
4) Brings smile on other person’s face, which in turn in another person’s and so on
5) Makes the day!
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